I recently came across this great little article in Family Circle Magazine about how kids eat what their parents eat. I'd say this definitely puts more pressure on us parents (myself included!) to eat healthier to be a better influence on our growing youngsters!
They Are What You Eat. Seriously.
written by Brian Wansink, PhD
Allow me to introduce you to a mom in upstate New York downing a pizza the size of a bike tire. And a Wisconsin dad dipping cheese fries in ranch dressing. And two parents munching fried calamari with tartar sauce on a sunny California boardwalk.
What do they have in common? All uttered this statement to me: "I can't control what my kids eat!"
Mind you, all of them were with their kids at the time. And, in fact, they were controlling what their offspring ate-just not for the better.
My Food and Brand Lab at Cornell University recently studied more than 400 parents in the U.S. and Canada who buy and prepare most of the food their families eat at home-the so-called Nutritional Gatekeepers. (I bet you're one of them, or you wouldn't be reading this magazine.) We found that, on average, they controlled 72% of what their families eat-for better or worse.
It's for better if they have fresh fruit on the kitchen counter instead of cookies. Or if they send their kid to school with carrots, multigrain crackers and a cheese stick for snack, instead of just saying, "Buy what you want."
What if they don't take a banana, or eat the packed snack? Chalk it up to the 28% you don't control. At least you gave them a healthy option they might not otherwise have considered.
And therein lies the power of the Nutritional Gatekeeper-offering good choices.
If we want our kids to eat better, we need to show them how it's done. If we munch our way through a giant bag of potato chips while watching "The Biggest Loser", why shouldn't they?
Another example: Because I'm not a coffee drinker, I down a diet soda every morning. "Gross," you might think. I don't agree, but here's what's finally making me reconsider this 30-year old habit. Every time I have a can in my hand, my two daughters ask for a sip. They don't beg for diet soda when I'm not around.
So it turns out, we do influence what our kids eat, more than we think. It's just a matter of whether that's for the better-or worse.
I know from my own experience, this is so true!! Whenever I have a hankering for chocolate, guess who also eats more chocolate? It goes both ways though in my house. In the days when I was
almost all the way vegan, but I wanted a little nibble of cheese, my hard-core vegan son would lay on the guilt and remind me why I shouldn't eat it. (Want some
puss with that cheese? Ew.)